Monday, January 30, 2012

In this Moment

This weekend has been one of constant reminders on this theme: first there was 'this moment matters' a chant that dropped off the wall and made me recall the many ways in which I was trying to more in the present moment. Then a few hours later, I heard a lady say to me, 'The quality of your life is the quality of your thoughts in this moment'

and then, (I am not kidding)I found an article called In this moment in a magazine sent by a friend: the wonderfully written piece talks about a teenage skill at calligraphy had stopped time for him, later as he chooses to be a writer, he finds himself looking back at those calligraphy days to learn to be fully in the moment. For a writer, the words and phrases are created in the moment but Inspiration comes from stillness which comes from being In this moment all other times.

Three cues to slow down and be present: all in one afternoon.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Time Poverty

Balancing Time and Money used to be the recurring theme in my Mumbai years. Earning Money took up too much Time. I wanted to read and travel and feel free. Now I have tilted the equation: I am time rich and money poor and happier no doubt. Life is vertically deeper and denser. Time flows gently... I was reminded of my time constraints when i saw this video today..

http://youtu.be/jgvx9OfZKJw

My friend Nandini saw a film In Time where the currency is Time not Money- what a brilliant premise. So one earns Time for services rendered. Wow I would like to work in place where I am paid in Time...

If fear of death drives our lives then how come we sacrifice time the way we do. Would we not feel compelled to live more deeply to fight off death? If one sits for some time in meditation or just connects with our inner being- there is no age there.... somewhere inside we are timeless. Being in touch with that eternity inside can take away this twisted relationship with runaway Time.

This must be what makes Mayflies dance all day long knowing its all they are given! Are we not dancing cause we have too many days given?

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Slow flow


Clint Eastwood works with a slow hand.

His films have grace and beauty and at 80 he has directed a really nice film. Any other director would have made this film 40 minutes faster and let the subtleties slide. Instead three stories work like a concerto and converge in maybe the only flaw in the film- the easy co incidence. Watching it I began to marvel how one really feels the people when the film has this pace- like life where relationships need the time width to soak in.

The film is really very western in its take on death. Here in India we take afterlife as a given and its almost incomprehensible to me how Western thought with a single lifetime works. I mean that not as a judgement but as a failure to have that worldview. But in the film death hits all the character hard and it seems afterlife gives solace. All that contacting the dead brings a continuing connect. Isn't that beautiful to know that nothing really dies in love ;)

Slow movies work. They are not as easy to forget as the paced up fare so popular today. Wish the new generation of directors remember this.

Hope I remember it when i make films.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Smile, breathe and go slowly



This is Thich Nhat Hanh's line. I was on a lovely website called Zen Habits (see Other Slow Places) where i met the famous five words once more. This line is the poet and spiritual leader's life mission. Help the world slow down. My friend Nandini and I learnt to walk with him. I know that sounds corny but we really learned to take each step with awareness and see the various stages of every step-the lifting, the keeping of toes, the arching of heel and the lowering... its amazing how difficult it is to walk mindfully.

Just leaving the mind is the longest journey.
The destination is the heart.
Not a long distance. Takes a lifetime.
Unless we put those five words in the title into daily practise.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

the quality of slow

Jamalu, a young boy from Bihar, began polishing my floor. Unlike most workers, he loves polishing floors and would be most upset if the stains, cracks and edges did not shine through. His quality demanded us all to slow down.

It so easy to recognise quality: it shines forth on first glance, as does falseness. The temptation is always to produce quantity, to work without thought, to get to some short term goal quickly. That is the way of the world of media that i once belonged to. Get the job done as easily as cheaply as quickly as possible and you are king. Preferably not do the job oneself- find a minion to coax and blame.

Then to a well lived life: with quality people, quality relationships, quality work. My new mantra: less books, less music, less food but what i read hear or meet must inspire and uplift. Somewhere there must be a Purpose that is worth sacrificing for; somewhere there must be slow thoughtful work that brings contentment- like Jamalu- every evening he surveys his work and smiles. That is what Osho speaks of often- the joy of being present to your work. The spell of slow. The shift in what Q you choose to chase.

I have a friend who scans for music that touches the spirit and then relishes it by listening to it in a loop till it is deeply embedded, I imagine. I look back at my desire to cram my ipod with 120 GB of music. I have yet to hear the 10GB even once. That's one swing to slow I must nurture. One song at a time.

Slow enchantment with living. My life purpose.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Life on Sale



Lets see what advertising brings into our lives: near free world class cricket, email, facebook, newspaper (yup, it not the 3 bucks you spend on it), all media actually, those brands you love, that overflowing cupboard when we need a fraction, the politics we think, the packaged foods that bring bad health, the lies we live with (remember when Dalda was good for the heart and called trans fat today), the cigarettes we smoke, the alcohol we drink... after all advertising is sometimes more entertaining than the movie, the concerts we go for....

Advertisers have got us by the neck and are driving us to the fast lane. Advertisers/companies tell media what to write or produce(hey I was there doing this), tells politicians what policies to make, tells economists what theories to teach all the way from Harvard down...

I hope we all feel the pressure of selling our time and health to these companies and support the small and the slow- the organic farmers, the dastakars, the local stuff, the essential stuff...

Small is indeed beautiful.

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

enjoy the ride

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=54Hsp-Zn7ak

This has to be my anthem film. Please watch it.